What do you want to get from a community of peers who are working on their racism?

Current members:

“I want a place where I don’t have to edit or get it right and where I will receive honest feedback and critique from others in my learning process”

“I need more tools for recognizing and responding to racism”

“I am looking for a safe place to debrief, listen and learn from others so that I can take the next steps”

“I want supportive community and honest feedback!”

Where this whole thing began

Over the last few years the time I have spent with students working on racism has been the most rewarding and exciting work I have ever done.

Along the way I’ve been getting DMs, emails and requests for private meetings after workplace presentations from people who had questions like:

  • “I get that I have white fragility, but is there a way to have more practical action tools?”
  • “I understand white skin privilege, but what am I supposed to do about it?”
  • “How do I figure out what I might be doing wrong with people of color?”
  • “How can I be more consistent about my learning? To be honest it is hard to keep going sometimes.”
  • “I want some way to make actual change that sticks instead of readings stuff and having no idea how to implement it in my life.”
  • “How can I stay connected to this community?”

Putting it together

Over the years I have created all kinds of tools to help white people take action, stay motivated, figure out where they are now and what their next steps should be, and I realized that one way to tie all of that together was with a monthly membership that provides community, accountability, support and new ways of learning about and unlearning racism.

I started to talk to people about a membership that would:

  • Have practical monthly tools and learning activities for uncovering and unlearning racism
  • Have a structure that will helps identify where you are on your path and what your next step should be
  • A safe place to privately learn and grow
  • Surprises and bonuses to ensure your progress
  • A community of learners who support and care for each other (
  • A place where I can provide personal support with love, ideas, action steps, encouragement, and compassion for where you are right now and where you want to be.

The Unlearning Everyday Racism Membership was born June 2020

I am so excited about this new monthly membership dedicated to helping anti-racist white people get better at talking about race and taking action against racism. I am curious and excited to see where this kind of sustained anti-racism work could lead us in 1 year, 3 years or 5 years from now.

THAT’S what gets me excited. It’s the progress we would all make if we all knew where we are on our anti-racist learning path and what our next step is so that we are continually learning.

” I have learned so much and gained so much insight that I don’t know what I would be doing without it, honestly. Your words are spoken with such Grace and your ability to Coach even though you are angry, is inspiring. It gives me hope and something to aspire to in and of itself. You’ve also had to the ability to explain some things I haven’t fully understood, and so today my action against everyday racism is to pass along what I have learned from you.”

The Membership Includes

  • New Action Steps and Tools for Unlearning Everyday Racism Every Month
  • Weekly “Getting Unstuck” videos to keep you motivated and moving
  • Weekly Q&A Videos
  • Private Members Only Community where I post bonus material for those who want more and where you can get help, feedback, ideas from other members. The Community is a place where you can share without editing or fear of being judged. We have amazing members and a wonderful Community.
  • Bonuses and Surprises throughout the year
  • Cost is (as of September 2020) $15/month

The Membership is open to the public in March and September. (Unless you are on the wait list)

The doors open again March 2021. To get advance notice of any openings at other times of the year get on the waiting list. Those on the waiting list will be offered early access when the Membership has space available (and at the current $15/month price. We open to the public again March 2021 and the price will increase a bit to $17/month.